5 ways Asian girls are SO underrated

By Doug •  8 min read

It occurred to me last night as I was lying in bed trying to fall asleep, that Asian girls are underrated. Like, incredibly underrated. You see, I was lying there thinking of all the things that happened that day, and it was hard not to smile thinking of all the interaction I had (both online and off) with various Asian girls that day.

As a matter of fact, I woke up this morning feeling the exact same way. I just can’t resist listing out all the ways that I think women from Asia are better than women from any other parts of the world. It’s a crude and slightly unorganized list, and it reflects my observations and experiences only.

However, I do believe my experiences to be common – and I’d be curious to know what you think. Do you think Asian girls are as underrated as I do? Let’s get right into the list…

All of the amazing ways that I think Asian girls are underrated:

1. They actually talk to me

I need to start out by saying that I’m an old guy in my late 40’s, and unfortunately, I’m not as hot as Brad Pitt. As a matter fact, I am more on the “Harry Potter” side of the spectrum. Here in the US, when interacting with white American women, this puts me at a huge disadvantage. American women only seem to be interested in muscular mega hunks like The Rock – not little nerdy guys like me.

However, I am an absolute stud on Instagram. And I do very well in real life meeting real Asian girls too. I don’t say this to brag. As a matter of fact it’s really funny more than anything else because growing up here in the US was a painfully frustrating experience for me when it came to love and relationships.

Asian girls are underrated because they actually prefer Good personality traits over handsome good looks. They are not into huge muscular guys with no personality, and that puts me at a huge advantage.

For example, I post a lot of pictures of myself on Instagram. I’m not cocky at all, and I just have fun showing my life the way I like to live it (which is pretty boring actually). Asian girls like this. and they actually “like” my pics and follow me without me having to beg for it.

Not only that, I’ve become very good friends with several incredibly attractive and young Asian girls on Instagram over the past two years or so. They are kind of girls who, if they were white and western, would never talk to me in a million years because I don’t look and act like a total stud.

  1. There’s the 25-year-old Korean flight attendant.
  2. There’s the 25-year-old Korean student who has an amazing bubbly personality to match her incredibly (cute) good looks.
  3. And of course, my favorite Instagram buddy at the moment: the 20-year-old Chinese college student at the local university who (for reasons I can’t understand) keeps talking to me and responds with walls of text to every DM that I send her.

Is that all the proof you need to know that Asian girls are underrated? Well, if not, I’ve got a little more to tell you:

2. They are actually approachable on the street

Here in the US, approaching women on the street is a very dangerous proposition for a guy for a guy like me. Unless you’re super hunky and drive up in a Lamborghini, it’s incredibly difficult to approach a random White girl and get her contact info. Girls here are just so stuck up and defensive, end it can be incredibly frustrating for guys like me who have no intention to harm or annoy. I just want to be friends!

The best way to explain how approachable Asian girls are is to tell you what happens on a regular basis around my own neighborhood.

I live in a college town with many international students (most of them Asian). This means that there’s always a constant flow of students and their families moving in and out of my neighborhood each school year. I see a lot of new faces every time I go out for a walk, and it’s always the Asian girls who respond back to my smiles with smiles and waves of their own. White girls do NOT do that.

Pro tip for any Asian girls reading this: attracting a white guy is easy when you convey happiness and kindness. A smile goes a long way to making someone attractive.

Asian girls are underrated because they are not stuck up and defensive as their western counterparts. And that makes me incredibly happy.

4. They actually respect others

If you’re a white guy and you’ve never dated an Asian girl before, you’re in for a real treat the first time it happens. If you need a little motivation, I’ve already outlined 3 very good reasons why you should date an Asian woman.

Anyway, let’s back up a second. If you’ve never been to Asia before, it’ll completely blow your mind how courteous people are in every situation you encounter. In Japan, people smile and wave to each other in heavy traffic. In Taipei, shop personnel will make you feel like a king or queen when you step into their store. Even if you have no intention of buying anything.

Asian girls are underrated because they think about others before they think of themselves. I’ve found this to be true the further east you go.

For example, in western China, people are far less courteous than the people in Japan. Speaking of which, Japanese girls are incredibly amazing simply because of how polite and respectful they are. Not only do I think they are some of the most attractive girls on the planet, but their personalities are incredibly attractive as well.

5. They will make you a better person

For me, this is the biggest reason why I believe Asian girls to be so underrated. I am married to a Japanese woman now, but I’ve dated my fair share of Asian women in my single years. Some relationships were better than others, but in every one of them I learned to be a better person.

It all goes back to what I was saying above about how respectful Asian girls are. Contrast that to someone like me who was born and raised in the heart of the United States – where aggressiveness and being loud is taught at a very young age.

Being with Asian girls (as opposed to western girls) has taught me how loud and obnoxious I can be sometimes. Which says a lot considering that I’m considered to be very shy and introverted to most western people. I honestly feel as if I’m a better person for having spent so much of my life with Asian girls. I’ve got a long way to go to become perfect (and I don’t think I’ll ever get there), but I’m happy with the way I’ve turned out.

I’m still discovering all the ways that Asian girls are underrated

As I said at the top of this article, I’m old. Of course I still feel like I’m 18 years old in my head, and I know for a fact that I’ve still got a lot of learning to do. However, Every Asian girl that I meet teaches me something about eastern culture (and myself) that I never realized before.

As such, It’s becoming increasingly annoying to me that most every western girl that I meet reveals something about their (my) culture and my personality that I don’t particularly enjoy.

Asian girls are kind and polite. Western girls are loud and aggressive. Yes, I know I am painting generalities and clichés with a very wide brush, but for the most part it’s what I’m seeing and experiencing in my day-to-day life.

Asian girls are so incredibly underrated,. If you’re a white guy looking to expand your horizons when it comes to dating, I suggest making an effort to go out and meet some Asian girls. It’ll very likely change your life as it did mine…


My name is Doug, and I'm an ordinary white guy living in the US. 10 years ago I married a Japanese woman that I met online, and it's been an adventure to say the least! I started AsiaGraphix.com as a way to share all the lessons I've learned about dating (and ultimately marrying) an Asian woman.

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