Meeting people is hard – especially if you’re trying to find companionship from the opposite sex. It’s even more difficult if you prefer women from Asia but you’re not even remotely Asian. In that case, where exactly is the best place to meet Asian women if you don’t live in an Asian country? To help make your life easier, here is a list of places where you will find the most success:
- In Asia: In other words, hop on a plane and travel. It’s by far The best way to find the Asian woman of your dreams.
- Online: Your best bet right now is probably FreindsAsia.com
- In the United States: New York, San Francisco, Seattle, and Los Angeles
- In Europe: London and Paris
- In Australia: Sydney and Melbourne
If none of these are applicable to you, don’t worry. I’m going to spend the rest of this article breaking down very specific scenarios for different situations. The truth is that none of the things I listed above is absolutely required to meet a really great Asian woman.
All you need is the drive and the determination to make it happen, and you will find success. Trust me on that. Follow along as I break this down into ultra specific categories with detailed instructions on what to do…
These are the best places to meet Asian women if…
The world is an incredibly big place, and what might work for a guy looking for an Asian girlfriend in the United States isn’t going to work for somebody in India (generally speaking).
Not only that, guys are very different from one another. Some are just looking for a one night stand. Others are looking for a more meaningful and long lasting relationship. No matter which camp you’re in, it’s not as difficult as you might think to find exactly what you’re looking for. All it takes is a little persistence – and a lot of patience.
The best place to meet Asian women for a one night stand
Considering that the AsiaGraphix audience is primarily male, it only seems right to kick this off with instructions on how to meet an Asian girl for a sexual fling. I’d wager that is what most guys are looking for.
If this is all you want, by far and away the best way to make this happen is to hop on a plane, go to Asia, and pay for it. Red light district and escorts are common in many places in Asia (except in northern Asian countries such as Korea and Japan), and you might as well just do that if you don’t want to waste any time.
If paying for companionship isn’t your thing, all I can say is this: you better be one charming dude if you are looking for Asian women for one night stands in your home country. No, it’s not impossible, but you’re not going to have anywhere near the success that you would if you just got on a plane and went to Asia and paid for it.
The best place to meet Asian women for a long term relationship
Again, (and I think it’s going to be common for nearly every category): you should just go to Asia. There’s simply no substitute for being there and meeting women in person.
If travel is not an option for you, your next best bet will be the online dating thing. As a reminder, FriendsAsia.com is a fantastic place to start looking for in Asian girlfriend.
- Avoid trying to meet Asian women on social media such as Instagram, Facebook, and TickTok. Pretty girls (no matter what race) get bombarded with DM‘s from guys every single day, and it will be nearly impossible for you to stand out and get noticed.
- By using a dedicated online dating site, it’s implied that everybody there is looking for the same thing: a relationship of some kind. This is not the case with social media.
- If you happen to live in one of the cities that I listed above the the top of this post, you’re in luck. Try to get involved in activities in groups where Asian women tend to participate. Relationships between people who share common interests are far more successful than those who don’t.
The key takeaway is this: Randomly approaching a cute girl at the coffee shop just because you think she’s pretty isn’t likely to go as far as if you met her doing something you both enjoy doing.
The best place to meet Asian women if you don’t live in a big city
At the risk of sounding like a broken record, travel (and online dating) is pretty much your only options here. Set up a profile on several different dating sites, and let them come to you.
You’ll be very disappointed if you spend your days messaging all the women that look interesting to you. These women are getting hundreds of messages a day from guys who are more charming and better looking than you, so don’t even waste your time with that. Just have some patience. You’re very likely going to get messages in your inbox without even trying.
And even though I mentioned above that using social media to meet Asian women isn’t a good idea, it might be in this case. If you truly live way out in the middle of nowhere and there are no Asians at all in your general vicinity, adding social media to your quiver might make sense – if you do it correctly.
If you need a little help, be sure to read my guide about how to meet Asian women on Instagram. My guide for meeting Asian women on Twitter will be helpful as well.
Speaking of social media itself, you might want to check out WeChat. For those that don’t know, WeChat is China’s version of Facebook. Not only that, it’s a very popular social networking at all across Asia, and as long as you’re not creepy and aggressive, it shouldn’t be all that difficult to meet Asian women there.
Just be careful and take things slow. Just as it is on Facebook, women aren’t necessarily there to meet guys. It’s just social networking for them. It’s a tool to keep in touch with family, friends, and business associates. Tread lightly.
The best place to meet Asian women if you do live in a big city
The best ways to meet Asian girls in big cities are nearly unlimited. Consider yourself lucky that you live in a very large population center, as you will have far more opportunities to mingle compared to someone who lives way out in the boonies.
School (or classes) of any kind is probably the best place to meet women from Asia outside the Asian continent itself. You can also find opportunities by:
- Offering to be a tour guide around your city
- Getting involved with localized dating apps such as Tinder
- Getting involved in local Asian culture. Most large cities have a section of town that is densely populated with Asian markets and restaurants, and it won’t be difficult to find cultural activities to get involved in. Checking meetup.com for local events is a good place to start.
The best place to meet Asian women if all you’re looking for is a penpal
If you’re not completely serious about getting into a deep relationship, and all you’re looking for is a friend, you’re in luck. JapanGuide is a really great place to meet Japanese people who looking looking for international friends.
It’s not a dating site, and you will be quickly run off and/or banned from it if you treat it as such. However, it’s one of the best places on the Internet to find Asian friends – and it’s a really good place to start if you’re just getting into meeting people online.